It's like so cruel! The discrimination and psychological torture that these people faced.. just because they were considered FAT.
And seriously... society is THIS cruel.. nowadays... Boys will laugh at you when ure fat... acty not just boys... ppl will critiscize you... tell u what u cant wear... n u feel like ure not pretty enuf to wear pretty clothes.
I know what that feel likes~~ sobsob. Hahaha eh i was fat okayyyee!! In JC... n i wasnt lk SUPER fat more lk plump...(my dear sec sch frens wun rmb bcos u hardly saw me in jc hahaha) but even then, ppl will make me feel like i look lk a monster!! And whenever ppl said i look fat, thoughts of like starving myself will like flash through my mind.... n then i will think like 'I'm gonna do watever it takes to become DAMN SKINNY'
but i usually get over those thoughts very quick la hahaha. thankfully. I dint do anyth on purpose to lose weight!! But one very good tip is to eat less carbo at night!!I used to eat heavy and late dinners in JC so grew fat despite PE. Now i dont exercise oso never put on weight lei..
but Seriously in society these days, u cant even afford to have an inch of fat if not.. ure FAT. people will just pick out every small flaw/inch of fat on you n say ure fat. Even if they're just commenting and not meaning as an insult, you will still feel super worthless and insulted because in todays' society terms- fat=uglyyyyy.
And GUYS are esp sensitive to fats.
And esp wen guys say ure fat, u feel damn worthless. Ugly, undesirable... and watever negative emotion u can think of
Okay maybe its good that ppl are motivated to lose weight n keep fit, but i realli think that life will suck if u keep worrying about ur weight and restrain diet n force yourself to exercise etc. Unless u enjoy doing it.. of cos.. but not for me.... AHAHAH. Ask me dont eat... ask me go n run... i rather DIE!!! HAHAHAHAHAH
Ehh.. not that i dont like exercising k! I dont mind playing sports but i dont lk running.. BORING U NOE!! I dunno how some ppl can enjoy it O.o
Now physical appearance is all the hype in society that it is so closely interlinked with one's sense of self worth. And ppl really judge u based on ur looks... ppl wun realli bother to know u, if ure not pleasant looking.. by society's standards. Guys will discriminate against youuuuuuuuuuuu...........
Admit it lor guys. Guys ownself fat/ugly still dare to critiscize girls fat/ugly one. Guys are visual creatures... CREATURES...... seriously guys are just physical hor? the physical component to guys is just so important but to gals emotional needs are more salient.
K la... not as if i nv judge ppl on their looks oso. HAHAHA.. but i realli think its not so much of their look but the VIBE they give bcos of their look. But i think the way one carries himself is the most important. More important than looks. I actually do think some fat guys are cute!! hahah
As much as I'd like to think one can ignore critiscism and most importantly, be comfortable with yourself regardless of what society thinks, i do think it's quite impossible unless you're really.. detached from society. LOL. Societal pressures to look good by society's standards are just enormous! And alot of ppl are becoming increasingly unaccepting of variances to these standards...
which is just disturbing. I'm disturbed too! It's tiring to constantly worry about growing fat. I still do.. even tho ppl say im not fat now.. i still feel fat sometimes. And i still worry sometimes lk if i snack too much then will get fat. And i still compare myself to lk other ppl n think im not skinny enough which makes me feel ugly and decrease my sense of self-worth.
Actually not just fats lor.. pimples oso.. any flaw ppl can pick out they will critiscize. As if i can control my OIL GLANDS... not as if washing my face twice a day with cleansing foam helps.. den wat else can i do Pfft! Go facial then new ones will keep popping out. Zzz. but my skin not so bad until have to see skin specialist luh.
Point is.... why cant society have a more realistic, healthy and accepting perspective of beauty?? Perspectives of fatness are really unhealthy nowadays.... SERIOUSLY... super unhealthy... if people like me, deborah, qihui and almost every girl NEVER thinks they are skinny enuf.
So people... do watch what u say... the 'fat' word is very sensitive now.....or anyth to do with looks for that matter
If u ask me now, wud i rather be pretty, or smart...
i'd say pretty.
And why do i make that choice? It's bcos society values good-looking ppl more than smart people. Not bcos I'm born a vain bimbo.
It's like so cruel! The discrimination and psychological torture that these people faced.. just because they were considered FAT.
And seriously... society is THIS cruel.. nowadays... Boys will laugh at you when ure fat... acty not just boys... ppl will critiscize you... tell u what u cant wear... n u feel like ure not pretty enuf to wear pretty clothes.
I know what that feel likes~~ sobsob. Hahaha eh i was fat okayyyee!! In JC... n i wasnt lk SUPER fat more lk plump...(my dear sec sch frens wun rmb bcos u hardly saw me in jc hahaha) but even then, ppl will make me feel like i look lk a monster!! And whenever ppl said i look fat, thoughts of like starving myself will like flash through my mind.... n then i will think like 'I'm gonna do watever it takes to become DAMN SKINNY'
but i usually get over those thoughts very quick la hahaha. thankfully. I dint do anyth on purpose to lose weight!! But one very good tip is to eat less carbo at night!!I used to eat heavy and late dinners in JC so grew fat despite PE. Now i dont exercise oso never put on weight lei..
but Seriously in society these days, u cant even afford to have an inch of fat if not.. ure FAT. people will just pick out every small flaw/inch of fat on you n say ure fat. Even if they're just commenting and not meaning as an insult, you will still feel super worthless and insulted because in todays' society terms- fat=uglyyyyy.
And GUYS are esp sensitive to fats.
And esp wen guys say ure fat, u feel damn worthless. Ugly, undesirable... and watever negative emotion u can think of
Okay maybe its good that ppl are motivated to lose weight n keep fit, but i realli think that life will suck if u keep worrying about ur weight and restrain diet n force yourself to exercise etc. Unless u enjoy doing it.. of cos.. but not for me.... AHAHAH. Ask me dont eat... ask me go n run... i rather DIE!!! HAHAHAHAHAH
Ehh.. not that i dont like exercising k! I dont mind playing sports but i dont lk running.. BORING U NOE!! I dunno how some ppl can enjoy it O.o
Now physical appearance is all the hype in society that it is so closely interlinked with one's sense of self worth. And ppl really judge u based on ur looks... ppl wun realli bother to know u, if ure not pleasant looking.. by society's standards. Guys will discriminate against youuuuuuuuuuuu...........
Admit it lor guys. Guys ownself fat/ugly still dare to critiscize girls fat/ugly one. Guys are visual creatures... CREATURES...... seriously guys are just physical hor? the physical component to guys is just so important but to gals emotional needs are more salient.
K la... not as if i nv judge ppl on their looks oso. HAHAHA.. but i realli think its not so much of their look but the VIBE they give bcos of their look. But i think the way one carries himself is the most important. More important than looks. I actually do think some fat guys are cute!! hahah
As much as I'd like to think one can ignore critiscism and most importantly, be comfortable with yourself regardless of what society thinks, i do think it's quite impossible unless you're really.. detached from society. LOL. Societal pressures to look good by society's standards are just enormous! And alot of ppl are becoming increasingly unaccepting of variances to these standards...
which is just disturbing. I'm disturbed too! It's tiring to constantly worry about growing fat. I still do.. even tho ppl say im not fat now.. i still feel fat sometimes. And i still worry sometimes lk if i snack too much then will get fat. And i still compare myself to lk other ppl n think im not skinny enough which makes me feel ugly and decrease my sense of self-worth.
Actually not just fats lor.. pimples oso.. any flaw ppl can pick out they will critiscize. As if i can control my OIL GLANDS... not as if washing my face twice a day with cleansing foam helps.. den wat else can i do Pfft! Go facial then new ones will keep popping out. Zzz. but my skin not so bad until have to see skin specialist luh.
Point is.... why cant society have a more realistic, healthy and accepting perspective of beauty?? Perspectives of fatness are really unhealthy nowadays.... SERIOUSLY... super unhealthy... if people like me, deborah, qihui and almost every girl NEVER thinks they are skinny enuf.
So people... do watch what u say... the 'fat' word is very sensitive now.....or anyth to do with looks for that matter
If u ask me now, wud i rather be pretty, or smart...
i'd say pretty.
And why do i make that choice? It's bcos society values good-looking ppl more than smart people. Not bcos I'm born a vain bimbo.
