and she was blogging about how some Singaporean guys really suckkkk!
*note.. SOME..just SOME
Cos there was this loser guy who questioned her fame and critiscized her, and then he recommended other blogs to go to. And u can guess what type of sites la.. like Dawn yang Xuesha's blog etc and porn sites even!!
Lk some se pekpek loser la omgosh.
Then xiaxue was also discussing about loser guys who go ard boasting to other guy frens about their sexual experience! (but i noe some guy frens hu r guilty of that too) Acty, it really is a pretty bad thing to do. Maybe it's jus considered 'guy talk' to guys.. but can u imagine how humiliating it is for e girl.. tt ure sharing ur intimate story with lk other ppl?? Sex is supposed to be between u n the one u love, and the experience shudnt be used for u to go n boost ur ego or for casual talk with ur frens.
In xiaxue's words, this is what Singaporean men want " a demure, unopinionated girl with big boobs ( must be pretty with conventional long black hair and big eyes)who are really horny."
Hmm... O.o.. quite true hor.. HAHAHA...as in.. for those loser type of guys la.. la..altho its true most singaporean guys like demure girls with long hair that are not as smart/zai as em! RITE! Cos Singaporean guys are (generally) abit more chauvanistic still n they got very erm.. traditional mindsets about what a girl should be like 'gentle demure blablabla' and get insecure wen their gfs are the independent/zai type cos (generally) most of em prefer the vulnerable type that cant live without em!!
And obviously, which guy dont like boobs. HAHAH
Just a... general observation. Lol.
Then after tt another loser guy critiscized singaporean women who date white guys.. which sparked off a discussion about how local guys dont respect women n appreciate the qualities of local women.. smth lk tt.
Then i was reading through some of the comments on that post.. n this lady shared her experience.. about how as a plump person she always get teased n bullied.. n how the guys in school will rate girls n stuff ( i noe alot of guys do that!).
Anw i just hate this kind of thing... lk.. sucks laa! Fat then get bullied wth! And maybe the 'rating system' is lk jus for fun to guys.. (why girls don do ah) but i think its kinda mean and demeaning to put a girl on a SCALE like some object n measure her attractiveness. Just say CHIO or NOT CHIO LA. What the hell got points sommore. Like that's all the worth they attach to a girl.. 3/10 or what. And guys will also be damnnn specific in judging girls!! Mouth too big lah big tummy fat legs whatever. And some will be damn insensitive n tease a girl about their flaws.
And i really hate it wen guys/anybody at all does that. LIKE SERIOUSLY dont go around being insensitive n hurting ppls feelings la. People got tummy flab so what. Dont have to go around n HAHA ur tummy bigger than mine or what.
And seriously girls are damnnn conscious about their looks one. Commenting about someone's looks is taken veryveryyy personally to girls, but guys talk and tease about it so casually like girls dont have feelings sometimes.
Girls have very thin-skin. And are super sensitive wen it comes to their looks.
Like... EXTREMELY.
Like u noe how self-conscious girls are?? And how much looks matter??
I had a horrendously difficult time shopping for costumes with my girl group for e concert. They are all like SUPER SLIM, but they keep complaining about fats here n there so cannot wear this n that.. i nearly wanted to faint. I think girls nowadays will scream at every 0.01 inch of fat put on. And i can't stand it when deb asks me almost everday if she put on weight. -.- She will keep coming n whining to me.. 'i look fatter hor.. look fatter hor'
And the guys will oso notice n tease a gal for every 0.01 inch of fat a girl puts on.
Maybe guys dont mean it in a bad way n tease guy frens about their looks all e time (like how ziqi they all always say sam is fat) but really hor.. you cant do that to girls. FAT is like TABOO word.. and taken as a serious, personal insult. So guys pls dont joke n tease about that.
I cant stand what girls are putting themselves through nowadays, and i cant stand it that the guys arent exactly helping either, with all the rating system n ceaseless teasing for every inch of fat!
And i cant exactly blame girls for being so self-conscious, cos the fact is ppl are getting really judgemental and critical nowadays!
I used to be teased for being fat in my fatter days also. I oso donno why i grew fatter during my jc days even with PE! But it wasnt so bad.. im lucky to have alot frens (and boyfren) who are non judgemental or who are simply blind to my fats!
Like in JC wen Ziqi was chasing me then, i was pretty plump. But he NEVER said to me tt i was fat. HAHAH.. but he told deb im 'abit plump'. Cos deb was complaining about being fat or smth i think den he said I WAS PLUMPER. HAHAHA im not offended la. I think it's sweet that he knows im plump but he loves me anw, and was considerate enuf not to tell me!! Not tt i dint alr noe was i fat rite. hahaha.. n he tells me im beautiful.. even back then wen i was fat. Love is blind rite! Hahah but anw my point is, u shud jus accept ppl n see their beauty n not be an inconsiderate immature ungentlemanly jackass and point out ppls flaws!
Dont say theres nth wrong in being perfectly honest.
I mean, u dont have to SAY a girl is fat even if its the truth rite. Unless u guys are such losers and have nth better to say and have no better ways of making a conversation with a girl other than telling her she's fat.
And dont say ure giving constructive critiscism. Like girls dont alr think they're fat n are not trying hard enuf to be skinny.
(ps: this post was not inspired by any specific personal experiences. I'm writing this cos i cant stand the skinny culture nowadays, n cant stand that even I myself am caught in it and have to be pressured to feel ugly n disgusted at myself for every gram of weight put on, and have to be stuck ard other skinnier girls who think they're fat,and have to feel worthless wen ppl comment that im fat!)
and she was blogging about how some Singaporean guys really suckkkk!
*note.. SOME..just SOME
Cos there was this loser guy who questioned her fame and critiscized her, and then he recommended other blogs to go to. And u can guess what type of sites la.. like Dawn yang Xuesha's blog etc and porn sites even!!
Lk some se pekpek loser la omgosh.
Then xiaxue was also discussing about loser guys who go ard boasting to other guy frens about their sexual experience! (but i noe some guy frens hu r guilty of that too) Acty, it really is a pretty bad thing to do. Maybe it's jus considered 'guy talk' to guys.. but can u imagine how humiliating it is for e girl.. tt ure sharing ur intimate story with lk other ppl?? Sex is supposed to be between u n the one u love, and the experience shudnt be used for u to go n boost ur ego or for casual talk with ur frens.
In xiaxue's words, this is what Singaporean men want " a demure, unopinionated girl with big boobs ( must be pretty with conventional long black hair and big eyes)who are really horny."
Hmm... O.o.. quite true hor.. HAHAHA...as in.. for those loser type of guys la.. la..altho its true most singaporean guys like demure girls with long hair that are not as smart/zai as em! RITE! Cos Singaporean guys are (generally) abit more chauvanistic still n they got very erm.. traditional mindsets about what a girl should be like 'gentle demure blablabla' and get insecure wen their gfs are the independent/zai type cos (generally) most of em prefer the vulnerable type that cant live without em!!
And obviously, which guy dont like boobs. HAHAH
Just a... general observation. Lol.
Then after tt another loser guy critiscized singaporean women who date white guys.. which sparked off a discussion about how local guys dont respect women n appreciate the qualities of local women.. smth lk tt.
Then i was reading through some of the comments on that post.. n this lady shared her experience.. about how as a plump person she always get teased n bullied.. n how the guys in school will rate girls n stuff ( i noe alot of guys do that!).
Anw i just hate this kind of thing... lk.. sucks laa! Fat then get bullied wth! And maybe the 'rating system' is lk jus for fun to guys.. (why girls don do ah) but i think its kinda mean and demeaning to put a girl on a SCALE like some object n measure her attractiveness. Just say CHIO or NOT CHIO LA. What the hell got points sommore. Like that's all the worth they attach to a girl.. 3/10 or what. And guys will also be damnnn specific in judging girls!! Mouth too big lah big tummy fat legs whatever. And some will be damn insensitive n tease a girl about their flaws.
And i really hate it wen guys/anybody at all does that. LIKE SERIOUSLY dont go around being insensitive n hurting ppls feelings la. People got tummy flab so what. Dont have to go around n HAHA ur tummy bigger than mine or what.
And seriously girls are damnnn conscious about their looks one. Commenting about someone's looks is taken veryveryyy personally to girls, but guys talk and tease about it so casually like girls dont have feelings sometimes.
Girls have very thin-skin. And are super sensitive wen it comes to their looks.
Like... EXTREMELY.
Like u noe how self-conscious girls are?? And how much looks matter??
I had a horrendously difficult time shopping for costumes with my girl group for e concert. They are all like SUPER SLIM, but they keep complaining about fats here n there so cannot wear this n that.. i nearly wanted to faint. I think girls nowadays will scream at every 0.01 inch of fat put on. And i can't stand it when deb asks me almost everday if she put on weight. -.- She will keep coming n whining to me.. 'i look fatter hor.. look fatter hor'
And the guys will oso notice n tease a gal for every 0.01 inch of fat a girl puts on.
Maybe guys dont mean it in a bad way n tease guy frens about their looks all e time (like how ziqi they all always say sam is fat) but really hor.. you cant do that to girls. FAT is like TABOO word.. and taken as a serious, personal insult. So guys pls dont joke n tease about that.
I cant stand what girls are putting themselves through nowadays, and i cant stand it that the guys arent exactly helping either, with all the rating system n ceaseless teasing for every inch of fat!
And i cant exactly blame girls for being so self-conscious, cos the fact is ppl are getting really judgemental and critical nowadays!
I used to be teased for being fat in my fatter days also. I oso donno why i grew fatter during my jc days even with PE! But it wasnt so bad.. im lucky to have alot frens (and boyfren) who are non judgemental or who are simply blind to my fats!
Like in JC wen Ziqi was chasing me then, i was pretty plump. But he NEVER said to me tt i was fat. HAHAH.. but he told deb im 'abit plump'. Cos deb was complaining about being fat or smth i think den he said I WAS PLUMPER. HAHAHA im not offended la. I think it's sweet that he knows im plump but he loves me anw, and was considerate enuf not to tell me!! Not tt i dint alr noe was i fat rite. hahaha.. n he tells me im beautiful.. even back then wen i was fat. Love is blind rite! Hahah but anw my point is, u shud jus accept ppl n see their beauty n not be an inconsiderate immature ungentlemanly jackass and point out ppls flaws!
Dont say theres nth wrong in being perfectly honest.
I mean, u dont have to SAY a girl is fat even if its the truth rite. Unless u guys are such losers and have nth better to say and have no better ways of making a conversation with a girl other than telling her she's fat.
And dont say ure giving constructive critiscism. Like girls dont alr think they're fat n are not trying hard enuf to be skinny.
(ps: this post was not inspired by any specific personal experiences. I'm writing this cos i cant stand the skinny culture nowadays, n cant stand that even I myself am caught in it and have to be pressured to feel ugly n disgusted at myself for every gram of weight put on, and have to be stuck ard other skinnier girls who think they're fat,and have to feel worthless wen ppl comment that im fat!)
